Thursday, March 9, 2017

Bookish (And Not So Bookish) Thoughts

1. I'm on eye drops, ear drops, and nose drops ftw. Here's hoping I'm back up to full health soon.

2. Wedding planning looms. I hit the three-month out mark, and although I'm totally on checklist, wished I had more details completed. If you've got more time, you might want to think about how you'll feel at xyz points. The WIC (Wedding Industry Complex, recently learned acronym) pushes you to decide earlier and it's definitely not necessary...but it might make you feel better, which is an angle I hadn't considered when I decided to take it more item-by-item.

3. That said, I'm now two months out and don't feel any MORE stressed than I did three months out.

4. Choosing and sending the invitations has been my favorite task so far.  Choosing my own stationery felt so gloriously luxurious. Highly recommend Minted.com--gorgeous designs and excellent customer service. I'm looking forward to getting back all the RSVPs!

5. Books...I'm loving inspirational and self-improvement books right now, even though I'm having a hard time getting motivated to do anything non-wedding or health-related because those are so time-consuming. Looking forward to Sarah Knight's Get Your Sh*t Together.

Sunday, March 5, 2017

Reading Updates

So, I finished Revenge Wears Prada. My assertion that it doesn't measure up to the original stands, but also that it was interesting to peer further down the lane of the characters' lives. There was one brilliant bit of plot that I didn't quite see coming, and another that was obvious, but still satisfying. The focus on weddings, since Andy and Emily run a luxe wedding magazine, was obviously interesting to me right now, as I plan my own!

I haven't been keeping up as well with The Economist or with The Case for G-d. I did this last time I read Karen Armstrong, where I got kind of slogged in the middle--even though it's fascinating, it requires a lot of in-depth thinking as you read along. I'm more than halfway through though, just need to keep going. For The Economist, I'm letting myself skip a couple of issues and start fresh. I'm still keeping up better than the last time I had a weekly magazine when piles of The New Yorker buried my closet floor.

Next up on the reading list will hopefully include the next two Magicians books, depending on the library selection, and I'm interested in reading Get Your Sh*t Together by Sarah Knight and The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni.

Sunday, February 19, 2017

My Reading Life

I'm still reading The Case for G-d by Karen Armstrong. It's enjoyable, but takes time to grok. I read A History of G-d in similar fashion several years ago. Appropriately for the times, she's creating an "alternate" history of G-d, choosing to focus on traditions of mysticism and spirituality, and elucidating the original meanings of "faith" and "belief," which she claims had less to do with literal belief than trust in the disembodied divinity of within and without. It makes a lot of sense to me, but it is certainly not something one can understand without thinking about--or with thinking about :-P

I finished The Magicians audiobook, just in time for season 2 of The Magicians. I love how the show plays with the events/characters of the book while managing to keep perfectly in tone. Lev Grossman is a creative consultant on the show, so that makes sense. The last episode...!!! I was flabbergasted by the last episode of season 1, since, despite the changes, I saw the plot going in a similar direction. Turns out I was right, sadly, it just took till season 2.The Magicians was a reread for me, but it's been some years, so it was nice to pick up on things I'd forgotten, like Josh's existence (he's not in the TV show) and the labyrinth leading up to the book's climax. I'd mainly remembered the book as "ruining" Harry Potter and Narnia, but it also parodies D&D in the labyrinth scene. Also, some of the funniest lines in the show ("That's basic Prime Directive!) were straight out of the book.


I've never read the later two Magicians books, but I'm motivated to read them now because of the TV show. While my first reading intrigued me, it also upset me on a deep level. Harry Potter and Narnia were integral to my childhood and what I viewed as their "corruption," plus Quentin's depression, were overwhelming. Now, I'm older and have more distance from that, and I just seem to be able to look at it from a different lens. Maybe audio makes it easier too. Just hope everyone else at the library doesn't have the same plans. I saw the third audiobook available this past week, but not the second. I got the Revenge Wears Prada audiobook as a holdover. Already not as good as the original, but it's interesting to see where the characters' lives went.

Sunday, February 5, 2017

Magazine Reading and What I've Been Up To

This year, I decided to get a subscription to The Economist. It felt  important to me this year especially to stay on top of national and international events (although things have been happening faster than I could have anticipated...). In the past, keeping up with a weekly subscription has been too much for me, but I got the idea from Gretchen Rubin's Better Than Before that "we manage what we monitor," so I created an Excel spreadsheet to track my magazine reading since I couldn't find any on the interwebs.

Also, I've previously used this blog to keep track of my reading, but now I prefer to use it to reflect on my reading (and life). Instead, I've (finally) joined Goodreads to track reading. I wish one could track magazine, article, short story etc. reading as well--does anyone know of a website/app for that? Let me know if you find one!

Anyway, I'm reading The Economist weekly now and I feel much better informed about the world--I keep telling my fiance--did you know there were prison riots in Brazil? Did you know that the president of Gambia was ousted?--and he's just like, yeah, because he's a news junkie and knows everything, but whatever. Obviously, though, the biggest story here is our own new regime. I do seriously feel like I'm living in a dystopian novel. So, here are the reasons I haven't been updating:

This is the baby we spent about 7 hours with at the march.
Other women helped the mom hold and change her.

  1. I've been marching. I was one of the at least half a million people who marched on Washington the day after the inauguration. It was amazing. I woke up at 3:30 am and got to the stage around 6 am. I ended up standing/walking for 12 hours, including an hour on a broken down Metro train (and overall I thought Metro did a fantastic job, it was just too much), and I don't regret one second. I would do it again. And probably will.
  2. I've been on vacation. Last weekend, the fiance and I took a much-needed weekend off--and came home to everyone rightfully protesting at the airports. I'm glad refugees, immigrants, and lawful residents are getting through again, but this is unacceptable. This is not about protecting our country. We should be welcoming people who have already been thoroughly vetted and waited years to legally come to our country. I wouldn't be here today if my family hadn't been accepted as refugees from Germany in 1939---NO HATE. NO FEAR. REFUGEES ARE WELCOME HERE.
  3. I've been sick. It started Tuesday evening, and I've been a mess since. Constant fever, sneezing, sore throat. The symptoms are finally starting to get better, but it also kind of keeps going back and forth. I apparently don't have the flu, just a nasty upper respiratory infection, but the constant fever is worrying me. 
Still reading The Case for G-d by Karen Armstrong, and kind of wish everyone would read it. If everyone just read this book, I feel like they would finally understand that the Bible was never meant to be taken literally, Islam is not terrorism, and everyone should really just take a chill pill on the whole religion thing (I'm talking atheists and evangelicals alike). Also, feeling connected to the roots of what I've always believed Judaism to be--about questioning the texts and faith, but not letting that sever your connection to rituals, practice, family, or community, and about kindness to others, overall. 

Sunday, January 15, 2017

Year of Reading Scandi-lously


Hope Jahren's Lab Girl was a surprisingly apt follow-up read to Helen Russell's The Year of Living Danishly. Not only did I stick with the nonfiction female memoir trend, but the mood stayed Scandinavian (or 'Scandi' as Russell frequently abbreviates in what I'm not sure is magazine-speak, Brit-speak, or her own argot).

Jahren describes her Minnesota childhood and immediately evokes the type of winter that Russell observes, except without the cozy sense of hygge. As Jahren puts it, she traded the icy exterior for a different type of iciness when she entered her home. The writing in Jahren's memoir has a strong sense of place, grounded literally by her interpolated chapters on plant life. It reminds me of the best attributes of scientific writing--the ability to say a lot in a short space and to be precise where it matters. Jahren's goal also exemplifies the truest goal of scientific writing today, to inspire research, by way of grants.


As she states in her first chapter, "If you're reading this, and you wish to support us, please give me a call. It would be insane of me not to include that sentence. " Her book therefore has a compelling purpose--to raise funds. Although it's an inspiring and gripping and fascinating story, that purpose never wavers. Though the prose naturally focuses on herself as the titular character, the real intended stars of the book are the plants that she researches and her lab partner, Bill. Jahren believes that plants shape their environments (as opposed to vice versa) and that they have, in their own way, lives, memories, thoughts of their own. She wants to build on her research to support this overarching theory, and she wants Bill's wages to be paid. Lab Girl is her long love letter to those ends.

The partnership between Jahren and Bill has been described by many as the core of the book, and I think that's indisputable. However, since so many people have focused on that, I don't need to say much about it except that it's worth reading about. What I will address is what is and isn't in the book. First, I read a comment on Amazon that accused Jahren and Bill of hazing their graduate students as an example of a larger culture of that in the sciences. I can't speak to the larger culture, but the comment cites literally the only example of this in the book (they ask students to label beakers for a project, then throw them out in front of the student), and it's in a very specific context of a similar incident happening to them. Now, I don't necessarily think that's a great idea, but I don't think it's quite evidence of hazing, and more of their own idiosyncratic training methods. Jahren acknowledges that they can be mean gossips, but that reads like self-criticism, and she also mentions how she and Bill support students. Second, with a title like Lab Girl and the buzz the book was getting before it was published, one might expect it to focus more on Jahren's experience as a woman in a man's world. While that does come up, it feels like more of a "hook" she used to entice readers, effectively so.

Instead, Lab Girl is much more than its title would imply. This isn't another tired exploration of women's difficulties vis-a-vis the patriarchy in the sciences (and I'm not trying to downplay that, I just think we can transcend it), but a stunning tour-de-force of one woman's absolutely unique passion for plants. And as weird and quirky as that sounds, we need more of that if women's, and ahem, all scientists' work is going to be valued as it should.

So, I'm not sure if I'm going to continue reading "Scandi-lously" or not this year. Up on the docket next I've got Karen Armstrong's The Case for God and I just finished the audiobook I've been listening to since December, The Accidental Empress by Alison Pataki (my only fiction so far this year!). Also, I've been watching The Magicians, so I'm thinking about listening to that trilogy on audiobook next.

Sunday, January 8, 2017

New Year's Reading

I've started off my new year's reading very similar to what became my go-to books last year: nonfiction memoirs by female authors. The last book I read last year (November and December reading will be up, er, soon-ish), was Such a Pretty Fat by Jen Lancaster, and the first book I read this year was--dum dum dum--Jeneration X by Jen Lancaster. But seriously. My fiance doesn't even know her name, but he's like "Oh no, are you reading that person who makes you laugh all the time again!?"

My second book this year was The Year of Living Danishly by Helen Russell. I'm interested (me and the rest of the world) in the Danish concept of hygge (I first saw it on the Konmari Instagram feed). It fits since winter is my least favorite season, and I'm sick of being somewhat sad for 4-5 months of the year. This winter has been mild, although there's currently an inch of snow and it's well below freezing. Still, the concept of making winter a "cozy" time to enjoy family, candles, blankets, and books appeals more than my previous strategy of telling myself that at least each day after Dec. 21st is longer!

I also received another hygge book (and a couple more are in the mail, ahem), The Art of Hygge by Elias Larsen and Jonny Jackson. It was mostly a how-to hygge guide with lots of hygge imagery: I'm looking forward to indulgent hot chocolate, decorative jars, and briefly considered making tea cozies out of old socks. Russell's book, however, was much more than just hygge, although it does provide a context for the concept. Russell, a British journalist, moves to Denmark when her husband gets a year-long job at Lego. She decides to spend the year investigating why Danes are reportedly the happiest people in the world.

One of the reasons I like Russell's memoir so much is because it isn't as memoir-y as others I've read. Don't get me wrong; I've started to become obsessed with the minutiae of other grown-up women's lives, but I also like to learn about things other than adulting.
Russell covers her daily life in Denmark month-by-month, but she incorporates a lot of research, primarily conversations with experts. I feel like I learned a lot about Danish society, and not just the shiny bits. She discusses gender (in) equality, domestic violence, and (copious) alcohol consumption. After a year, of course, she doesn't know everything, and much of her conversation is reflective of her UK nationality, as well as a clear bias toward a UK and US audience. As a US reader, I couldn't tell if a lot of her slang was just British or idiosyncratic to her; I'm considering reading it again just for that. I also found it interesting that she emphasized dollars and US comparisons so much. I wonder if she ever lived in the US or worked assignments there. Or maybe it was just the publisher's appeal to the US audience.

I've still got that new year's rush of feeling excited about reading, and now I'm also excited for a cozy winter ahead. Next up: Lab Girl by Hope Jahren.

Monday, January 2, 2017

2016 Reading Statistics

Borrowed from Boston Bibliophile.

How many books read in 2016?
65 (not including rereads or work reads)
How many fiction and non fiction? 42 fiction and 19 nonfiction (2 short story collections, 1 book of poetry)
Male/Female author ratio? 48 written by women to 15 written by men. I didnt  read intentionally in this regard this year, but I did notice I was tending more towards books by women. 

Favorite book of 2016?  Bitter is the New Black by Jen Lancaster. Also, The Yiddish Policemens Union by Michael Chabon, Eligible by Curtis Sittenfeld, The Girl of Fire and Thorns by Rae Carson, Better Than Before and Happiness Project books by Gretchen Rubin, and Mans Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl.
Least favorite? Paper Towns by John Green or A Spool of Blue Thread by Anne Tyler
Any that you simply couldn’t finish and why? I DNFd Empress of the Night by Eva Stachniak. I disliked all of the switching back and forth in time.
Oldest book read? I think The Haunted Bookshop, published in 1919.
Newest? The Circuit: Earthfall, published in Dec. 2016
Longest and shortest book titles? 
Shortest title: Out of Oz by Gregory Maguire
Longest title: The History of an Obsession: German Judeophobia and the Holocaust, by Klaus P. Fischer
Longest and shortest books?
Longest:  The History of an Obsession, at 544 pages.
Shortest: An Abundance of Katherines, at 272 pages.
How many books from the library?
32. I did very well on getting library books this year. It helped that I got all my audiobooks  (12) from the library. I also read 8 books found at my local Little Free Library.
Any translated books?
I read 3 translated books this year, 2 from Italian and 1 from German.
Which countries did you go to through the page in your year of reading?
I travelled to Tudor England, 19th century England, 20th century England, throughout the United States in the past few decades, and to a few different dystopias, futures, and fantasy lands, including twice to Oz.
Most read author of the year, and how many books by that author? 
Jen Lancaster, Gretchen Rubin, J.K. Rowling, and Rae Carson are tied at three books each.
Any re-reads?
I read Bitter is the New Black by Jen Lancaster and Better Than Before by Gretchen Rubin twice each.  
Favorite character of the year? 
Jen Lancaster!
Which book wouldn’t you have read without someone’s specific recommendation?
I didnt read a lot of recommendations this year, it was mostly finds from the library and Little Free Library.
Which author was new to you in 2016 that you now want to read the entire works of?
Jen Lancaster
Which books are you annoyed you didn't read? Im not really annoyed about anything I didnt get to this year. Either I got to what I wanted, or I realized it wasnt that important.
Did you read any books you have always been meaning to read?
I mostly read in the moment this year, so although I read some books that happened to be on my TBR, I didn’t intentionally do so. 

How many books did you read on your ereader?: 7, and honestly, I thought it was going to be fewer than that. I’ll see how I do with that going forward.
How many SFF books did you read? 12, including the entire Girl of Fire and Thorns trilogy and the last two books of the Circuit trilogy.